So you've broken one too? Sucks right? Don't leave the thread. There are important things to talk about. I have a feeling that there may be a progression that goes something like the following:
-Young boy is obsessed with girls and feels generally sexually frustrated
-Boy "lands" a girl and pats himself on the back for "securing" a girlfriend. Gives her all of his love and his power.
-He gets his heart broken when the girl cheats, lies, and/or dumps his ass for reasons related to the biological needs of her amoral female animal.
-Boy gets mad at girl; at all girls. Learns Pick Up theory and/or Red Pill, goes and finds a girl (or many girls) he doesn't respect that much and fucks them. He is in the anger phase.
-Boy eventually finds one girl who he likes fucking more often than the others. He really doesn't like her as a person or understand how to control her. The tools he has to control women are rudimentary and his skill in wielding those tools is novice at best. However, he manages to use them to effectively control one girl as a sex slave, by turning her into an obsessed sex-addict.
-She begins to see her sex-addiction and his (asshole-power-derived) control of her as love. She goes into constant emotional turmoil over the fact that she is in love with an asshole. Because he has slowly developed some level of emotional connection for this particular woman, he can begin to feel her pain. The pain sucks. And because he doesn't want her to feel the pain (or to feel it himself, via the empathetic route), he sets her free and breaks up with her. He gives up good satisfying sex with an essential sex slave in order to stop causing her pain. He feels he may have broken the woman. She may now be alpha widowed.
-He feels bad about what has been done to him and what he has done to another, but resolves to put away hate and blame and just try to forge a reasonable way forward. He tries to learn as much as he can about women (and what drives them), men (and what it means to be a man), so that he can come to a more deeply satisfying solution for the way in which he interacts with women (and with life).
TL;DR - I think that the path to maturity in this sphere involves being hurt, hurting others and then realizing you want to move beyond this dichotomy to a solution that is mutually beneficial.
The tools for it are being taught in the manosphere. And it's going to be up to each one of us to custom build our own frames.