My spouse has epilepsy and can't drive. It takes a toll on everyone, and yes, everyone has to vent. It's hard. If we vent to public? They will think that's it's awful. If we vent to our spouses? They feel bad. But somebody needs to hear the other side. It's one thing to vent in Reddit, but it's another thing to feel like you are actually being heard and cared about from a real human being. We need a caregiver, too.

Travel is my "thing", my passion. I haven't been able to do that for two years. Am I glad I can serve my hubby? Of course! But it takes from everyone. With kids in tow spending 3-5 hours a day to bring him and pick him up from work is A LOT for everyone. Plus running around doing errands, kid's school, classes, gym, etc. Our kid has epilepsy, too. We practically spend all day in the car! It's a lot. We have been trying to find a place closer to work (we actually live close, but the traffic is horrible) but crappy condos are close to a million bucks and we can't swing that. I can't work because I can't afford to replace me (and i am home raising Littles, including special needs).

I often wonder while driving, how many others are on the road because their loved ones have epilepsy?

Be gentle. We are all in this together. I am sure your SO didn't mean to make you feel bad.

God bless!