ALWAYS perform your due-diligence!

I give women my name, facebook link, and anything else they want.

I've got a name that's shared with 4 people in the entire USA so I'm pretty easy to find 2 of them died the last few years and the other is my father.

I've got nothing to hide though but I also understand that women need to look out for themselves. I also look up women I'm dating but more out of curiosity than self preservation.

For a while I'd look up the dudes that my ex would add on her social media. She wasn't doing any DD or she didn't care about their arrests, lol. I'm glad she made her shit private, I was worried for her but this is what she wanted.

Every time I think I'm over her, something kicks me in the nards. Fortunately the dating pool isn't great where I live, so I'm not missing out on a damn thing.

DD won't save you from liars and shitty people though, just those that have been stupid enough to break laws and be caught.

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