Am I (20F) “yelling” at my boyfriend (19M)?

I personally believe us here on reddit can't help tou with this situation so I advice you to take every comment here with a grain of salt.

Why? Because we don't know how you guys sound when fighting. If you are speaking to him in a normal voice and he keeps accusing you of yelling that could be an abuse tactic. The other possible thing is that you are raising your voice to the point of him feeling attacked and you yourself are not aware of it.

So since these two possibilities are the polar opposites of each other, i believe we can't really assess this situation, nor give advice.

It sounds you are trying to be healthy and I root for your success. Also try to have normal discussions after the fight to figure out what you both want. Or try to leave to another room and after you two calm down after a heated argument and discuss the situation without fighting.

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