Am I (23/F) getting regular cold feet about my boyfriend (22/M) and I getting married or is there more to it?

I tried to talk to him about my hesitation, but it kind of turned into a crying fest where he told me that this marriage was all he had to look forward to. He's struggling pretty bad with depression and anxiety right now, and feeling stuck in his job, so I feel like if I left I'd be ruining his life. It would be a lie to say I haven't been spending the past couple of weeks thinking pretty hard about it, though. He also seems to think he would never find anyone else again (he's said this several times before) and I definitely don't think that's true about him, but I'm slightly worried he would do something drastic if we did cut ties.

This is VERY concerning. It's time to encourage him to go to counseling.

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