Am i (24f) being overly sensitive or am i justified in thinking about breaking up with my boyfriend (25m)?

It's not about being the most attractive partner your SO has ever had, it's about having a partner that won't constantly make negative comparisons at you.

If you're dating someone who's not quite as attractive as someone in your past, you don't say that to your partner. You don't assign a rating system and constantly remind your partner they're "below" someone else. That's immature, toxic, and borderline abusive behaviour (if constant/repetitive). OP's guy sounds like a complete ass. I don't really blame her for becoming fixated on her appearance vs the other girl's because her boyfriend has made it clear that's what he values the other girl for, to the point of bringing it up with his friends. She needs to dump him and find someone who thinks she's beautiful without making childish comparisons that damage her self-esteem.

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