Am I(24m) stupid for waiting on a girl(23f) that can't/hasn't committed after 1,5 years?

As someone who also seems to only rarely find someone I can feel "on the same wavelength" with (and at least 30% of the time it's someone who would be toxic for me), I know you're probably scared because you're worried if you give this up you might never find someone you click so easily with. I would say that you probably will find someone, and they're probably closer than you think.

If you're anything like me, it's such a refreshing feeling to be able to bond with someone so instantly because you don't feel like that with most people. Figure out what makes you click so easily with them and try to 'reverse engineer' finding someone else that may make you feel the same way but be a better match overall.

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