Name one guy with autistic tendencies that find women

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not that you care about anything other than wallowing in your own self pity, and I know I won't change that, but something that helped me was recognizing that the way I was thinking about the world, about relationships, about women- everything really, was ass backwards and really really toxic.

I really had to think about and have it explicitly told to me how and why people act certain ways in certain situations and learned why that was normal and why they did it. Sounds stupid, especially because it's unconsciously learned behavior for most people, but in doing that my perspective on the world changed, I saw myself in a new light and I actively worked to fix the maligned behaviors I had, and in doing that people warmed up to me, stopped thinking I was so creepy, and I even got into my first relationship which, because I was committed to learning, helped me come out of my shell tremendously in spite of it not being a good relationship and basically launched me into being what some people like to call a "normie" (which I think is a really cringeworthy term anyways)

Like, I get it's hard and that all you want is an easy solution, but the only solution is that you have to change the way you think and act on the most fundamental levels (which will never fully happen but you can really make a lot of progress and deal with it), or you can keep blaming the world for not giving you what you think it owes you.

Just think about it- do you think a girl will want a guy who only talks about their negative traits, only cares about their own feelings, and refuse to make an effort in anything they do "because it's not their fault", or will they go with someone compassionate, empathetic, and genuine who is able to articulate their feelings and work with someone else to make a healthy relationship?

The people who accuse women of only going for assholes are ALWAYS , and I mean ALWAYS the assholes in question. NOBODY who's actually got a desirable mindset will think like that, because it's wrong. The only answer is to work on yourself, and the rest will come in time.

And if it doesn't, then at least you're better off than you were before in pretty much every aspect.