I appreciate your comment but I just want to clarify few things I didnot go into a relationship because my ex got into one. Also this girl I have been talking with I already told her about my ex alot and explained everything and she wanted to stay I tried to push her away but still she was still understanding which Is something i donot get and I tried so hard to explain to her that I am not over my ex so far and she was okay with it and in the end she told as long as I am willing to move on from my ex she will be okay with .

And I was working on actually moving on from my ex and I honestly donot want her back and I feel nothing towards her and when this girl asked me to give her space and time I agreed because it seemed fair after all what I have done and said .

And no I am not keeping her as an emotional dumpster as much as I did like her I also valued her time and told her this many times before . I am okay with being single I really no longer care at this point .

Last thing I would like to point out yes I have known her from 16 months ago but we only started talking seriously 9 months ago . I knew that I would probably be attacked based on my post history but I swear to God that I told her about everything I had been through and she said she wants to help me out . But she doesnot feel sure about me that's the full picture