Again read the thread question. No kids. She is wrong and taking advantage of your husband by retiring.

"Am I [28F] wrong or taking advantage of my [30M] husband for being a childless housewife?"

I already said the first few years is a worthy cause unless the mother stays home and has nannies raise the kids at the same time while they live at yoga class, charity work and coffee time with friends. The fact is with a little planning, my wife changed careers and started a business that allows her to work from home and I am in IT and share the same advantage. That is called planning. Picking a degree that others will do for free is not good planning.

In regards to merry maids. I pickup my twins toys every night. That extra mess costs me 10 minutes a day tops for the both of them. I learn a lot about my kids at the same time.

Our house at the end of the day is not any more messy then my friends who have no kids. Granted we ditched the white sofa.

Domestic work is not "comparable" work to work a college educated should be doing.