I am addicted to self inserts but why is there no good male self inserts?

Male OCs that both fit the criteria and are done well are indeed rare. A few examples of more recent fics I've checked out that I can name are:

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Also, if you're looking for action and lack focus on romance, I would recommend giving Tales of a Ninja Magician a brief look. It has a female OC who is a pacifist but, ironically, it is probably the most combat and action focused fic I've read in a while (I've been following for a couple of years so I'm not sure I can even say that). Before you do, so that you do not waste your time, I'll list some things TONM has that are considered deal-breakers for most people that drop it:

1) Despite getting into more fights than anyone in recorded history, the MC has a no-killing policy and doesn't really like fighting in general.

2) Even though the story takes place in the same Naruto-like ninja world with the same countries, Bijuu, chakra, etc, it does not feature any of Naruto characters except in a single special chapter where the two universes have to work together to beat some multiverse travelers. (most people really don't like that, but I suppose in your case it may not be that much of a dealbreaker since the author switches POVs across multiple OCs and some of them are male and actually enjoy fighting and killing people)

3) The writing style does take getting used to. The author writes in a very cloggy and strange style, fights take multiple chapters to resolve (I think multiple fights take around 9-10 k words) and each chapter feels like old-school DBZ episodes where you get a little bit more information about the plot but it looks like it tries not to catch up to a manga that doesn't even exist, in this case.

4) The story doesn't get into any romantic hints until at least a million words in and most romantic subplots are more hinted at and barely explored on page. (for that reason, I think the story could warrant at least a brief look, given your preferences)

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