I got a divorce and I dont regret it one bit. Infact, everyday I thank God that He gave me courage to leave that relationship. Mind you, I don't have kids.

To answer the second part of your post about whether its too soon. I dont think so. I was married for 5 years. Into the 3rd year of our marriage my then-husband didn't speak to me for nearly 1 year. It was a long distance relationship. The remainder 1 year I spent trying to get him to speak to me. The only regret I have is not getting divorce sooner.

You seem like you know what you want and it sounds like your husband doesn't want to make any adjustments in himself to make you happy. One person can't hold together a marriage alone. Its a 2 way street and he needs to realize that and put effort in. But sadly, you can't change people who don't want to change. Since you know what you expect in a marriage and your husband doesn't want to give it to you, my question to you is, why do you think its too early or that you'd regret it?

Sometimes a divorce is a blessing. Personally, I'd rather spend the rest of my life alone then be in a loveless miserable marriage.