Am I being oversensitive for being bothered by this?

If you don't want to be naked around someone then you are under no obligation to be that way around them. If you are uncomfortable, a line has been crossed.

There's a reason it's considered polite to knock, it's so you don't barge in on someone in a state of undress.

Do not allow what you've forced to put up with enforce a concept of what is normal in your mind, especially when your gut reaction is agitation or anger.

Here's a rule of thumb: If it's been going on for your whole adolescence and childhood and you're still bothered by it, safe bet is there's a damn good reason you're still bothered by it. You've a right to privacy when it comes to your naked body, a right that you get to decide to enforce or waive whenever it suits you, especially as someone who has passed the age of fucking toilet training.

Moreover, you have the right to not see any naked body, and this right too can be enforced and waived at your leisure, there's a reason public nudity is met with hefty fines in some places and criminal sentences in others, depending on the circumstances.

Do not put up with this.

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