I forget who it was, might be one of the Gracie family. But it was a high level black belt. I remember that. Well they would say that they don't like to promote women above blue. The reason being is almost any man at blue or even some new white belts and at the very least man handle them. And thats fucking embarrassing if you're an upper belt.

I'm not saying you were manhandling her. But she's an upper belt being tapped by a white belt. She's embarrassed and angry. Deep down she doesn't think she's worth that purple and outwardly she'll say you used your man strength.

Idk, maybe dont roll with her. Is it worth your time? Maybe not since you can "win" at only 15%.