I am the boyfriend of a trans(mtf)partner

Where does her sex drive lie, on a scale between a typical man and a typical woman? Do you know if it's similar among other trans women (assuming there's chance she has friends in a similar situation and has more in-depth discussions than my trans friends would have with me)

I find trans women beautiful, but the ones I've met, the hormones wrecked their sex drive. A few said they couldn't even climax. My, perhaps ill-informed, worry is I'd find someone who was great at first because sex was novel and she wanted validation and to be nice...but nothing biological was fueling it, it would get old past the honeymoon and be a strain on the relationship.

For me, I'm horny 24/7, which is typical for men < 25 (I'm much older). I need sex like a normal person needs sunlight. Yeah, if you go a few days without seeing the sun, your heart won't stop beating, but it will tangibly affect your mood and sanity, and all the problems magically go away once you spend a few hours in the sun (or in my case, get off).

The trans women I know seemed to need sex the way I need fine dining. It's nice, it's a special thing, you do it to please the other person, there's some mild inconvenience to anxiety with the whole dressing up and going out facet.

I got the impression they weren't fueled biologically to NEED it like I do and did it more for novelty or to please their partner. Is her sex drive similar to a typical cis-woman? a cis-man? something else entirely?

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