I am curious how many others on this sub think their Nex was also BPD.

Mine was. She has bdp, and add. Actually they’re really open about in their spammy Facebook post constantly complaining, raging about anything that no one asked for in status updates that are so random.. And if someone calls them out, or had another opinion they’ll justify their statement and agree with them and change their own opinion to charm and have them like them. If they are insulted they get their family or partner involved to harass the persons opinion or statement. Happened to me when they shared a graphic video of a child being abused... I commented saying please, I don’t want to see this, why are you posting this? Then her wife (she’s bi, and no hate in gay or bi people) attacked me in the comment section. This was my (nex best friend) who made the post then said well delete me, always took my personal text messages with her and I, and made sub statuses about me without mentioning my name on her Facebook... she still does this to this day. I deleted my Facebook and blocked her on Instagram, but every time I do something she wants to copy me by making a post saying “should I wear my hair this way? No disagreements will be aloud because I will end up doing it” “should I wear this” or ends wearing and using the same Style/caption idea as me. How do I still know this? Because I have a hard time not checking up on her, idk why but it’s super hard.. if anyone else struggles with this please let me know...

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