The first time I got waxed the lady told me that my vulva was beautiful. I was like what?!!???!! I had seen it with a mirror and didn’t like what I saw honestly. Then some times later I was with a guy who went down on me for the first time ever in my life. I was frozen. He asked me what’s wrong and I told him he didn’t have to do it if he didn’t like it. He told me that he had dreamed of “it” for a long time. He stayed there long enough. After that I still took a look with a mirror. Nop. Don’t like it still. OP whatever you think of your vulva there’s men out there that consider it a whole meal and those who don’t just don’t like vulvas in general. How I know? I have been with a closed gay man. He was 40 and told me sex was like a chore and he liked talking sports with me….when we were alone. I don’t like most sports.