So first of all, I’m going to call you out on your last statement. I’m F and I always approached guys first. Whether it be for friendship or romantic interests. I used to be extremely extroverted and now I’m rather shy myself. But I still have extroverted tendencies, so I can easily over come my shyness when needed. It might sound silly but have you read How to make friends and Influence people? There is nothing new in there that you probably don’t already know. However, I read and I I think it’s a good read and reinforcement on people skills. I heard that No More Mr. Nice guy is a good book to read too. I just started an Instagram account on romance tips and advice. And you can message me with any questions if you want.