I am a failure and have no future

Whatever you decide, things will turn out ok. If you decide to grind your teeth and go for one more year - have grit, and do your best. If you decided to drop out - you know yourself best, and maybe that was the best decision for you. If you know your heart won't be in it for another year, that was probably a wise call. Why put yourself through that if you know you're not mentally in the right place for it? University can wait. A lot of people drop out, take some time for themselves to decide what they actually want, some travel, some get a job and some go back to college later in life. There's no one right answer and there's no shame in doing what's best for you. You don't have to do what everyone else is doing. This is your life.

You have inherent worth and value. You are not your degree or your job. You can choose your own path. I know this is all scary and you feel like everybody else is running while you're still deciding on a direction, but you're not alone and it's not a race, so take your time. *hugs* It'll be ok, I promise.

/r/IncelExit Thread