Why am I a frequent victim to rumors, fake stories, unnecessary hate and obsessive, bad people?

I appreciate the response. To add to my statement, I am an ambivert. I have done and am doing much better than these people in life and I've accomplished much more than they have and they are well aware of it. Not once did I ever rub it in their faces or try to belittle them or make them feel inadequate for what ever they are or their situation is and I've never been one of those people who are considered a 'snob'. In my past 2 relationships, I dated 2 extremely insecure men and being a strong minded, opinionated person with good intentions, there was a huge clash between our personalities and their masculinity. I am on good terms with my 1st ex but the 2nd one is evasive, delusional, miserable and a bitter person who is dishonest to himself and everyone else and I don't think I would want to associate with him as I believe he is a wicked person. And as far as depression goes, everyone goes through it at a point in their life. I prefer to not show or speak to people about it because I believe I am strong enough to handle it on my own. So when you say "bully" or "pick on" I usually imagine a weaker, timid person being a main target where as I am far from being a weak person and those who know me, know that very well. Their presence in my life is of little to no importance, as there is nothing to gain or loose from them considering the type of people they are. But sometimes I really wonder why are they the way they are.

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