I ended up with some seriously cultural fueled homophobia after that flawed study of 40 people and its claim that we don't exist since everyone didn't even hear any of us until there were enough threats to places from bi men all over because while we are called closeted, except for the 3-5 bisexuals per LGBT quota that are hard to find.

I was outed at age 7 from my love notes in school and wasn't closeted at all and I have been out and open in either sense of the situation because we are always bi and identify as that. The even better part, the majority of us are as bi but their identity isn't suggest it etc. I also respond very nastily to the term queer because it seems like between the straight women/gay men and their inquiries hoping to hear that we are phony.

To the OP: They like many of the gay bashers that some of us were for whatever reason launch into their inner heteros often to type up more specific things. It feels insulting to meet so many grown up people in the world being apparently ignorant. So I will ooze the other things.

School teasing by cops is hilarious. I consider none of you a sociopath etc or even bad. It can be as simple as just not grasping the concept of how that makes sense. I know with the "the one" chats in my youth, that is where we lost being on the same page as you. And oddly enough, since we don't get the fake niceness from the hetero white women who'd lead the modern cause because yes, it seems to be going right where it intends to.

Goth was where finding was money and was lucky to have subculture and the friends I meet. We aren't perfect. I will say that I feel like, we have a lot in common and that on our end doing nothing or cracking jokes about you or both of you on our part is where we are to blame. Everyone I know who is on any nature, bi and in that rejected period in life isolated vs joking about it.

And another and I may get the same but hey, I am trying hard.