How does apologizing make me the problem? Seriously, how. There are billions of people and I physically can't stop them all. I help where I can. Is there something more I am supposed to do?

Also don't you dare say that I am supporting these other men by accepting it. It happens, and if I chose to ignore it, it would still continue to happen. Instead I take action and apologize.

And it was a typo/auto correct, I was trying to say at least explain yourself if you are gonna be rude since you have yet to give an explanation, because an apology is not accepting or allowing the actions of others.

So again, please tell me what I should be doing if apologizing isn't it.