(I'm not a girl so take my pov with a grain of salt)

High school bullshit is high school bullshit. That's not to minimize what you're going through at all. Recognize that at that age, people are learning how to use their "social claws" so they're going after what they think is a weakness. I know I did.

Remember that you are not defined so much by what you can't change (your ethnicity) as much as you are by the choices you made about what you can change. There are absolutely, 100% people out there who will be lucky to call you their friend because of the person you are, and the person you are becoming. Try not to waste time on impressing people who mask their own insecurities by picking on others.

What does it mean to be white? What does it mean to be Korean? There are no definitive answers to those questions that anyone can give.

You are free to define who you are by yourself.

It's wild hearing that you think being half-Asian might be a detriment. Half-Asian girls are some of the most beautiful women around. And I've found that many have an interesting perspective since they are a mix of cultural influences. So fuck the haters, girl. You do you and I promise you will you find your crowd (and your guy) while you enjoy your life.