I absolutely detest placing value on humans. Having sex in no way lowers your value. No one gets to determine your worth. Why do you place so much importance on virginity? Do you think that you are incapable of being as good of a partner as you would be if you were still a virgin? Do you love him any less than you would if you were a virgin?

Having sex is nothing to be ashamed about. It’s your body and you have a right to do with it as you please. Whether or not you had 0 or 10 sexual partners before your fiancé is insignificant. Treat him how you would want to be treated and stop obsessing over being a virgin. If he thinks your worth less because you’ve had sex with someone else, then tbh he’s a pretty shitty person.