To AM: Reasons why some AM put down AF and admire WF?

Obviously, of course. In the greater scheme of things, AFs within the context of white society have more of a voice than AM. That much is definite, and unfortunately, the voices that are getting the spotlight are AFs who talk down on their race of men.

As an entirety, both AMAF should definitely be shocked and react against this because it's a horrible state of mind. And THAT is essentially what I'm criticizing. THE STATE OF MIND.

It's one thing to really dislike the AF who openly disparage against their race of men, or pretend that the issues of AM don't matter. That one I have no problem with. I am in full support of that. It's another to paint an entire race of women who are completely unrelated to you in background and experience as significantly better than your own race of women even though statistics have proven time and time again these women do not prefer Asian men and actually prefer white men, or at the very least are not opposed to them. AFs definitely have their own brand of problems that a significant portion hold, I completely agree. IDK what it is, but Asian girls as a collective need some girl time or whatever to really discuss these issues.

But please don't paint all of us as one monolithic group that only wants white penis when there are many of us who prefer Asian men and even exclusively only want to date us.

Because at the end of the day, when I have made it out in my mind that I can only see myself having a truly meaningful and fulfilling life is when it's with an Asian man, it's really disheartening to me when I see those same men who are the objects of my affection turn me down because they think I'm lesser than WF. My ideal is within the meager 5% that resides in this country, and that really is depressing to think about in the first place.

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