Thank you you’re so right. I’ve literally had a guts full of his ways and to then justify it with Christianity is ridiculous. I’ve given him an ultimatum he gets the help or he leaves, I have real bad PTSD and it’s triggered more and more by his reactions.

I’ve lost my 1st child which we had regular contact until I listened to the “I’ve changed speech” from current partner. My son lives with his father now which I’m still struggling with because he is also emotionally abusive and groomed at 15 then got pregnant. He does go to his mothers house most of the time and he is safe, I accept my actions just we’re not enough. I’m currently waiting to have contact again with my son but because of my current partner they cannot trust him around my son due to his arguments around him in the past. I really wish I wasn’t such a push over and to just get a damn grip... I am seeking help though this pregnancy has triggered me to be more assertive and reach out more. Sorry for the long winded reply.