Okay so they are wrong is what you are saying. And I cherry picked responses from trans people only tbh. I didnt care about anyone's response who wasn't cause you're not of that community. I wouldn't ask a Chinese person about Japanese culture just cause both are Asian, so why would I Care about any opinions on it beside trans people

If you think they are wrong? If so why? Also its not much work, only thing that I would need to change is to personal think to myself "yeah they are exactly the same a CIS women with no difference"

Thats not hard to do, I just have to actually hold that view and nothing anyone has said has made me feel that way

Also WHAT IS WRONG WITH BEING DIFFERENT? IF GENDER IS A SPECTRUM WHY PUT YOURSELF IN A BOX ON ONE SIDE OF THE SPECTRUM? There is nothing wrong AT ALL with being trans.