First of all, trans women are REAL women, what you’re meaning to say is you want a cis woman (identifies with birth assigned sex).

You might just have a genitalia preference, which go ahead that’s fine. The issue is if you’re still refusing to date a fully transitioned trans woman because she ‘used to be a man’. But if it’s the issue of kids, you’re in luck, it’s also entirely possible for trans women to get pregnant (uterus transplants), which means that you can still have kids, (even if she couldn’t, adoption is an option).

But also here’s something important for you to think about, would you still date a cis woman if she couldn’t have children? (Hysterectomies, infertility, MRKH)

If your answer is yes, you’re just transphobic, buddy.