Don't expect a reply or if you do, it might not be nice. Is ren/amanda lying About this too? Its totally possible. But there is no way to approach it without offending. My brother is trans, and tries to educate people on the matter because he wants to be understood. The words from his mouth always are "if i want people to understand me and be informed i have to show them and educate them. If i jump down their throat with the "cisscum" and offense at someone who simply just is not informed, there will be no understanding or education". His approach Usually works. Getting extremely hyped up and going all Tumblr on someone who literally just isnt informed on the subject isnt helping anyone, and not making them any friends.