This isn't me trying to be defensive, but what are some good insults to call women that won't intrinsically be about their gender?
I call men cunts and bitches in situations where they are acting accordingly but definitely steer away from ever calling women that cause I know it'll upset people for the wrong reasons. It does sort of transcend the word itself and becomes more of an attack on their gender which I feel distracts from what I'm going for with an insult. Making a point of somebody's gender while insulting them isn't adding to the insult part.
I've taken to using "they're a fucking asshole" or "dipshit" as a fairly neutral pejorative for women in social situations. I think we can all agree on "asshole" when somebody is being one.
It might be my accent, but I can't deliver, "motherfucker" with the same vitriolic, plosive percussion that comes with words like "bitch" or "cunt" I still wanna be insulting and vulgar but not sexist lol. Also I can't stand insults like "Karen" cause I think that also feels sexist, needlessly archetypal, and I also just feel bad that people ruined a name for all the bonafied nice Karens.