The amount of people blaming me, is unbelievable

In OPs original post they say “do whatever you want just don’t wake me up.” I fail to see how that could be construed as anything other than “it’s okay to have sex with me while asleep.” If it was just “do whatever you want” and OP fell asleep this would be an entirely different conversation. Instead they ended their statement with “as long as you don’t wake me up.” Language is important, words are important — I genuinely hate that the OP is struggling in this and that this happened — but OP encouraged their partner not to wake them while doing whatever they wanted. OPs now ex partner isn’t a criminal in this scenario.

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