An absolute goldmine of a nice guy. I actually feel kind of bad for this poor, misunderstood intellectual.

It’s not really being an asshole that’s attractive it’s the honesty quality, if are transparent about what you want and go for it, but ultimately know when to back off those are attractive qualities. Guys that will put me in my place are attractive to me (maybe not every girl) because I like being feminine, I want the guy to be the guy. Nothing is sexier than that. So when you have these other guys who think they are being nice and they’re doing all these things for you they aren’t actually being honest with what they want. It’s a passive way of showing affection and passive isn’t an attractive quality for most women, assertiveness is what makes me want you.

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