Why is anal via my BF so repulsive to me?

Think about your SO being too "grossed out" to even kiss you, but then would happily shove things into their orifice(s?) that don't belong there and justify it with what seems like moon-logic to your face.

If you have OCD like you've said, then you would know that logic oftentimes flies out the window. So for her to get hung up on the fact that sometimes he wont kiss her but he has no problem playing with his ass isn't all that strange. For one, you don't taste things with your ass. It's not normally other peoples germs going there when you're just playing with yourself. Not to mention there is sexual satisfaction to be gained by playing with it. For most guys, kissing doesn't really provide sexual satisfaction. Maybe it can help get you in the mood but noone over the age of 12 has ever nutted just by making out with a chick.

Again, this is why what the object is, is important. It would help the rest of us to understand exactly what her hang up is. Without knowing what the object is, the rest of us are left to speculate and the only real info we have to go on is her saying " The very first time he told me about it I literally vomited, he wasn't there in person, and that's just so horrible. I don't want to be an awful person and hate it, but I'm afraid I'll never get over it."

never get over it

Never get over what? Without knowing what he's using, this sounds like shes just complaining that he doesn't have a problem with playing with his ass but sometimes has a problem with kissing her and shes jealous of his self love.

If he's using his sisters dildo, maybe there is some cause for alarm. If he's using his own dildo, there is no cause for concern.

You're entire response to me was speculation about what could and couldnt be the issue and THAT is the issue. There is not enough info provided to really know what is really going on here. That is why we need to know what object he is using.

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