Welcome to the dope game in my city!
If you want consistent product that you know isn't gonna be purina with a habit of more than like 0.25g/week then you have to deal with assholes like the one you're describing
And yes I mean literal dog food haha!! This summer my friends got sold bags of literal dog food when they were copping in the hood, luckily I was outta town for that one ha!; I was also lying accidentally when I called them my "friends." It was a group of people I would cop with occasionally if a couple people wanted a 0.5+ or if time was tight, but only one of them knew my number and he turned out to be the shittiest of all in the end but, I genuinely didn't trust nor like the other guys anyway
Anyway OP, trust me I feel your pain. My dude won't disappear for days or weeks on end like that, maybe 36-48hrs at the very most. But, he lives about 15-25 mins down the road depending on traffic. I'll talk to him all fucking day about meeting up with me at 4:00 or 7:15 or 10:30 or whatever the fuck time it is that I'll have time to drive out to the middle of nowhere to cop
I'll drive out there, and he won't answer his phone for hours. I'll go from rite to target to Wendy's to the woods to jack off in the woods, literally anything to kill time while trying to be patient
Then I get a call and "he's weighing it out be right there"
30 minutes later I call and he's putting on his shoes. And then OH GOD THE DUDE DRIVING HIM IS A LITTLE BABY BITCH AND DEMANDING A FREE SHOT TO DRIVE 1.5 MILES meanwhile I'm waiting around and missing important shit waiting to drop hundreds of dollars into this kids lap
It's insane
But, I have too much to risk, and too much to lose in the arrest/felony area, so, I put up with it which usually entails doing like 1/5 of my entire stash right when I get it lol. But in this town, white boys in the hood means one thing...... With so much THC in my system at all times and also driving dirty with the dope, I can't afford to be pulled over for whatever random brake light/U-turn, turn signal, whatever reason and so I put up with it. I also know what he uses to cut and how much of mine he cut, and he really is a good guy.
But he and his gf are junkies too and so a lot of the time he is waiting on his re-up so he can then sell most of it to 30 different people wanting a damn point so he can then buy the ball or whatever for him and me and one other heavier user
I'm sure that there's a chance he, as well as the driver I mentioned, will read this lmao. not tryna bitch at you or call you out or put anyone on blast. Just wanting to support OP's feelings of frustration, as it can be unbelievably frustrating to be so fuckin dismissed and ignored and placed at the end of the list when I'm the one driving to a different fucking city and having actual commitments that I have to honor and be at
If you think you are my guy haha, fucking look at where the big green is. Think about how with school starting tomorrow that I'm not gonna have time to dick around for fuckin 3 hours