Another Red Pill Shill in r/askmen laying down the rules of being the perfect woman for a relationship despite his 30 failed attempts at love.

You don't wear a butt-plug for extended periods to stretch yourself out. It's for feeling plugged and full and maybe naughty.

I'm not a big fan of the whole stretching idea anyway. I don't like when there is a goal (e.g. I have to get my boyfriend's penis in. What do I have to do to get there?) because it makes people skip steps. I.e. go straight for the penis without learning anal first. There is a drive to push further than they might like. Only leads to discomfort and pain, or tearing. All in the name of "stretching".

Plus, it seems like the same kind of thinking that's behind "if you have sex a lot your vagina gets loose". Yes, you can gain elasticity, but more importantly you learn what feelings to expect, not to clench up, to relax, read your feelings and know when you can ease it in further - whatever "it" may be. Could just be a finger if you're unusually tight!

What's important is that you enjoy every step of the way and perhaps want to go further. If you can only take a finger and you're content with that (or you can already tell you don't like the feeling), that's it for you!

But if you love the finger and then want to feel a penis, maybe try an in-between toy first. I recommend a small (!) dildo rather than a butt plug for this because it better allows for gliding and keeps the pressure on your hole constant. The shape of a butt plug makes for a different sensation.

just so I can feel like I am taking a massive shit during sex.

I don't agree that the feeling is that of "taking a massive shit" (although there are short moments when it absolutely can feel that way) but if you've tried it and the above is your take-away and you don't like it... what can I tell you? As I said, it's not for everyone.

All I'm saying is, pain isn't at all a necessary component! And I stand by that.

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