My husband runs into this sort of situation all the time. We are quite well off and live in a 1.5 million dollar house and drive nice cars. We don't need to work.

When some neighbors see him working in the big box store, they are shocked. What can I say? He likes to work there. Some are slightly rude and ask why he is there.

When we renovated our house, one neighbor asked to see the kitchen. Sure, why not. He asked if our new Wolf, Subzero, and Meile coffee maker were new or used. Of course they're new, we just renovated. Then he asked how we afford all of this since the husband works at the big box store. Shocking news, wife makes a lot of money.

I'd like to say F off to those jerks! No one knows what is going on in your life, or mine. Some people can be so rude!