Hey, first, thanks for the reply! Second, I guess i sort of turned this into a vent in my post, my apologies. I'm not sure I like saying she was playing pretend lesbian because that makes her feel like a liar, she just has said many dudes have tried getting with her and she never felt anything positive towards men or felt any attraction until me.

The poly thing, my fiance said we would be a monogamous relationship, and opted to end any ties with anyone who she was seeing. (I was open to being poly, I'm very fine either way!).

To put it simply, I have spoken to my fiance extensively about these things to understand both of our feelings on them. My therapist reopened these previous years by planting the ideas that my fiance might not be honest with me or communicate with me until things are too late.

I'm not trying to demonize my therapist either! She has been very helpful with my depression, but seems to have issues with my anxiety, I have seen her for about a year and a half.