Anxious he will compare me to his previous gfs

Assuming he is aware that you have not lost your virginity, he can’t expect you to have tricks and moves like someone who has been having sexual relations for, let’s say, years. I had a similar experience when I had lost my virginity, my partner at the time had been sexually actively for quite some time and I was scared he’d think of me lowly for my lack of experience. Turns out- I was wrong. Our relationship strengthened because of that, he taught me things and was very gentle and loving through it all. It will be extremely intimate because you are trusting him enough to have your first sexual experience with him. You’ll be surprised how quickly you pick things up and find things you both like, and my biggest piece of advice is to communicate about what feels good and what doesn’t. Don’t be afraid to try different things!

Think of it this way- You can’t be expected to know how to play chess when you’ve never done it before. It would be silly of him to compare you to others, so try not to worry about this. If this keeps popping into your head, talk to him about it. Communication goes a long way, whenever I have doubts or worries my partner has no problem talking it out and reassuring me.

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