If I may, I love needy and codependent people.

I was fortunate enough to have a girlfriend who was like that. Though unfortunately I now refer to her as my ex.

Now before I continue,if shes cutting herself when I left the room to take a leak then it's a problem (Haha) But generally speaking,its wonderful being with someone who actually wants you around and wants and perhaps needs you. (Perhaps says something about me but thats either here nor there) Being busy with work or school and not seeing eachother for a few days and then getting a text or call about wanting you and needing to see you..its a really good feeling to want and be wanted.

I understand what your saying,its a burden to be someone crutch. And for your desires to be overlooked when you do open up.

But needy folk get a bad rap from the extremes.

In my experience,and romantically speaking I suppose, I rather be with the person who notices then I'm away and always wants to be within arms reach than the chick who couldn't care less.