I don't really believe in MBTI but relate to INTP for sure. Strong N, borderline T. I rarely listen to music (cuz I usually listen to podcasts/audiobooks), and frankly even eating isn't that imp't to me. But my visual sense demands aesthetics. I like everything to look nice! I'm fit and dress sharp. Most days I wear minimal makeup and straighten my hair, but for special occasions I'll sometimes get decked out. I used to get full highlights for my hair but got lazy/cheap. I like minimalist decor, but my furniture is aesthetically pleasing and matches in a not too matchy-match way.

The thing is that I do shopping or getting ready and am always looking for shortcuts. And I definitely do NOT enjoy talking about these things. So while I am drawn to women with a similar sense of style (as I'm drawn to people with a similar sense of humor), I find myself bored to tears discussing fashion or home decor, especially when people are just regurgitating facts. I'd much rather talk about psychology, philosophy, politics, finance, science, etc., but it does seem like the few other intellectual women I've met could not care less about their appearance.