Over posting your link wasn't really what I (and some others I VR with) found weird, it's just that your posts insinuate like it was a company "you found", but you posted about it everywhere, squeezing it into random other topics after unrelated comments which made this account you're using right now seem like a spam bot account.

So we didn't want to purchase from a site that looked like it was getting shared by a bot account for obvious reasons.

As I said, your product looks good - what you should do it create a new post entirely for your headbands (rather than trying to squeeze it into random other posts) with images, and how it makes the comfort better etc just like the recent VRCover thread for the Samsung Odyssey+. I can almost guarantee that it'll turn into a hot topic because as I said - your product looks good. But how you advertised it sucks.