Is anyone else dreading getting older just because they don’t want to lose their friends to kids?

I'm a few years older than you (33 LOL) and I can say for certain that this happens. It's difficult for them to balance their schedules. to some degree, even the best, most balanced parents, loose a bit of their identity. all they do is work and tend to to their kids (or just tend to their kids). they may not have the time to spend to themselves, read a book, sit in quiet, and do the things they like to do. they may only talk about their kids when they speak to you.

I hate to be a downer. it sucks, but it does happen.

HOWEVER, what also can happen (in my case!) is that you may become the "cool" friend. they may only want to do childless things with you and be encouraged to do so. I often encourage them to read, spend time to themselves, and put their mental health first. you may have trouble making some friends for a while (they'll be busy) but you will absolutely make other friends!

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