Anyone else feel like they’re the one with bpd by the end of the relationship?

yet when your counselor or adviser and pretty much anyone close and sane around you detect such toxic repetitive behaviors over the years and warns you about it, then you know at least something is very abnormal about that person.

I'm not talking about the posters in years long relationships who have established patterns. I'm talking about the "I've been dating this BPD for a month and I keep breaking up and getting back together with them. It hurts me so much. How do I survive this abuse?" posts.

I'm just pointing out to OP that subs like this are a magnet for personality types that like to play the victim and BPDs fit that to a tee. This is the internet. We get one side. You have no idea if the person on the other side of the screen is

play the victim for his/her advantage

Or if

they never have genuine interest in saving or helping in the least way the people they claim they love;

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