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I wasn't as into Taylor for her self-titled album, Speak Now, or Fearless when they were released, so i don't have much to say for those albums.

For 1989, I was with a pretty shitty boyfriend at the time & some songs like "All You Had to do Was Stay" got me through a lot. Her lyrics fit in so well with my life then, & it made me realize that if we broke up, I'd be okay.. & we did break up, haha. Red got me through a lot of that breakup, even though that album's release didn't resonate with me at the time. Red was an album I definitely slept on, until I was heart broken.

Reputation came out shortly after that ex & I had broken up, & I related to her feelings of entering a new relationship & feeling nervous, afraid to mess it up. I didn't have the repuatation that she had (because of the Kanye thing, etc.) but my self-esteem was pretty shitty so it had me thinking, Why would he want to be with me? Now, that album is nostalgic to me because it reminds me of when my boyfriend & I first started dating. A lot of the songs remind me of him in a happy way :)

Lover has been resonating with me. Like you said, OP, i'm in a healthy relationship with the man I believe I'm going to marry (we've even talked about engagement and looked at rings!). When the song Lover came out, I related SO much. You can tell how happy she is, and I felt that deep in my bones because I feel the same way with my boyfriend. I cried, & I can't listen to it too much because I'll keep crying haha.

What a great question, OP. I didn't realize this until you posed this question. Sending you love, & hoping for the best for you <3