My partner's system isn't at the stage where they can talk about DID online. My goal being here is to relay support to them (a go between that has proof of some spaces online that might be safe to find others like them) and to perhaps support other systems myself that have lost faith in singletons as I've been an SO for a while. (Partnered with for 17 years, married, three kids etc though only recently confirmed DID).

Completely understand the need for a private space/trigger warnings etc ofc but is isolating further away to only those alike the best option for this sub?

As an example. The way the opening documents read is that there is a private thread already in existence for systems only (is that still active? If not it probably should be) that this one is the middle ground for those that live with the significant impact of DID (systems, family, SO's etc probably not the people who are on their second date with a system and haven't even read the wiki page but more the people who are significantly invested and systems to interact. Ie I'd eventually like to introduce our young teens to such communities too as daddy has DID and meeting more systems might help them understand their parent better.) and that askDID is the one for everyone else. This makes sense. I feel that if genuinely invested SO's and family are directed to the askDID sub that there will be a drop in interaction between those two groups who are actually impacted by the everyday effects of DID.