Anyone else a "monogamous dater"?

I am a monogamous dater and recently met a girl on tinder. We were talking about it on our date asking if we were seeing anyone else. We both agreed that we would have had no ground to stand on to be annoyed since we had no obligation to each other however we both also agreed that if we were someone elses option then we would rather they went for the other person cause if you are an option then you clearly aren't someones first choice. Yes fair enough a 1st or 2nd date but if you kept going it would just be clear you havent made a decision or you aren't good enough for them to cut the others out. So I guess what I am trying to say just get really lucky and meet another monogamous dater :)

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