Anyone else never had an orgasm?

I won't insult your situation by insinuating that I have any well-thought-out or reasoned response which has a good chance of helping. I regret that I have only wild theory give, and even that is unsound.

That said:

So lets think on some common (and uncommon) sexual intensity boosters which could possibly help (or more likely not).

There are certainly unsafe alternatives (which I do not suggest you try, but may be a clue towards a safer alternative).

  1. What's that whiffing stuff they sell in porn stores targeted towards gay me? Is that legitimate at all?

  2. Several things exist which allow people to climax who are unable to otherwise, but it is not clear to me that such things are not due to addiction, or otherwise degrading of what may once have been normal function by that very activity.

    a. asphyxiation (DO NOT DO THIS!) While the activity is horribly unsafe, I am sure you would not have to look far to find a group of practitioners who believe they have developed a reasonably safe process. I would not believe those claims, but the issue does provide us a clue that a lower pulse-ox can contribute to reaching orgasm.

    b. Likewise, depravity. Depravity can actually induce impotence, but can it also have a paradoxical effect in those previously unable to climax? This provides us a clue as well: that it is entirely possible that it could be caused by a not-strictly-sexual (or not at all sexual) mental "block". What does depravity do? It isn't sexual. It is indulging in things which we feel we have a duty to not indulge in, or not support. What is the paramount of depravity? Well that lies entirely in who YOU are.

For strong powerful women it is often rape fantasy. For hardcore child-free individuals it is being called "momma" or being told that physically she is a "breeder" and momentarily allowing herself to imagine the filthy life of a white picket fence and the cheerful sounds of children playing in the back yard...as she watches through a screen door while being railed from behind by their father.

Someone may have poisoned your mind, and you need to determine which poison they used....and get the antidote. Has anyone ever told you consistently that something, or some people were bad, or evil? Perhaps you need only fuck such a person...

I could go on, but I don't think I'm contributing much of value, so I'll spare you my further musings.

GLTY! and I'll bee rooting for you.

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