3. Anyone else’s nparents give unclear directions and then insult YOUR intelligen...

Anyone else’s nparents give unclear directions and then insult YOUR intelligence when you don’t do things to their liking?

Ah yes so many times. Since my brain is always overwhelmed when someone asks for an example I explain it as I'm driving a car with that asshol father in the backseat. I come to a fork in the road and ask should I go left or right? His instrictions: don't go left. So I deduce it as : go right. Father: who the hell told you to turn right?! All you know is to waste my time and money!! Here I am taking time off from sitting on my ass to guide you!! You swine!! Stupid female!! Foolish woman!!! You're not normal!!! Go look at others how they behave!!!! Bastard!!

The situations change but the insults, the choice abuses never do. Till today I am deathly frightened and overwhelmed when someone gives a ton of instructions. I dread fucking things up and ultimately I do fuck things up. It's like my brain can't keep up or doesn't hear them correctly because I'm already scared.

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