Anyone else’s pwBPD have an infatuation with their exes?

Very similar experience here! I did understand where he was coming from though when he told me his feelings for people never really go away. I mean, that makes sense, you can't unlove someone. All of his exes had gone no contact, he was always surprised I could maintain friendships with my exes. Any one of the girls who was no contact he needed to "fix" things with until they were on good terms again. After reconciling with one of them at the beginning of our relationship, he tried to hookup with her and he only told me this like five months into our relationship. Cheated on me physically and emotionally, then discarded me when he was ready to start things with the new girl. I see the cycle now, cause I was the new girl at the tail end of his last relationship. She went no contact too.. go figure.

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