I'm guessing I'm not that porn addicted than. I can care about a woman AND want to fuck her brains out (not that I interact with women irl, lol). If you don't want to do that (fuck her brains out) with the girl you are with, then you are with the wrong girl. And no shit you ain't getting it up with girl you ain't into. Like, if I'm with a obese chick, that ain't gonna do a thing for me. But there are plenty of other men that are into that. You don't have to like every one, women sure as hell don't. They also always prefer a tall, buff dude, with light blue or green eyes that has a shit tone of experience with women (aka, a playa)... and has a lot of this $$$. So if it was normal to be so extremely open minded, I would've had a girl by now. So I wouldn't worry to much about skipping the stuff you don't like. :)